Second, You are experiencing the vicious cycle of self-victimization. You probably don’t realize it. This is an extension of the Law of Attraction. You expect it, so you get it. In your circumstance you have probably had this happen all of your life. So gaining a point of reference for you to aim for seems an impossible task.

Third, Find something little, small, or insignificant to focus on. Something you can bestow or give hope to. By basing your successes on something small, you can build upon that. From what I am hearing from you, when you have aimed for bigger successes in the past, you have failed. This strengthens failure, not success,… and you become the victim.

By building a series of successes, no matter how small, you can re-create your pattern over to success instead of failure. And you move away from being the victim.

The struggle will be large and take a long time. With endurance, anything is possible. It is all up to you.

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Good Luck in your life.
Shannon